When something is not working the way you want it to, if something is malfunctioning, the proper thing to do is to troubleshoot the problem. Getting mad at a computer system or your automobile will not fix anything. You need to take a deep breath, take a step back, and look at what is wrong. In the same […]
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This morning, I stayed in my bed dreaming. Sometimes I can figure out why I dream about the things I do. But this time, I dreamt about Malissa. There was nothing really to have triggered such thoughts. I hadn’t watched any romantic movies, or had any romantic thoughts. Why then did I have this dream? I find this particular dream to be […]
In ‘Sex and the City,’ number of sex partners true to New York life I was struggling when I read this article and some of the comments. I was debating whether or not I ought to even write on this. After all, different people have different values. Call me a prude, but I don’t require a “porn star” sexual experience to […]
I must’ve had the most restful night of sleep last night: my dreams were vivid and varied. I experienced a wide gamut of emotions. There were little snippets of humor and fun, some scenes of gentle affectionate moments of romance, flashes of anger and violence…and everything else in between. They were little scenes that didn’t seem to […]
Yes, being a hopeless romantic is a gift, and a curse: as the Shaolin say, in order for one to experience joy, one must have the capacity to feel an equal pain. One beautiful April morning, on a narrow side street in Tokyo’s fashionable Harujuku neighborhood, I walked past the 100% perfect girl. Tell you the truth, she’s not that good-looking. […]
To know love, be like a running brook, which deaf, yet sings its melody for others to hear. Feel the pain of too much tenderness. Awake at dawn with a winged heart and gives thanks for yet another day of loving. Empty yourself and yet be filled. An old man tells you this is how to know […]
The instant we become an adult is the moment when the instinct to love is greater than the desire to be loved. Steven Stosny, Ph.D I stepped into the shoes of the silent observer once again. I combed through the network, searching for inspiration. I read people’s notes and looked at their relationships. I treaded through my own […]
