It’s a funny thing. I’m lookingat OKCupid’s matches for me, and it appears that I am attracted to a disproportionate amount of bisexual women that show up on my list. I have no issue with bisexual women. No, it’s not because I think it’s hot to see woman on woman sex (well, to be fair, I never really explored that issue in depth, so I don’t have much of an opinion on the matter). So it’s not like I have any conscious attraction towards bisexual women. It’s not a sexual or even a psychological thing.
Empirically, if I were to judge from aesthetics, there must be something about bisexual women that are attractive to me. From a strictly physical standpoint, judging from the profile pictures of women I am attracted to (though my sense of attraction may be different from most males), I seem to pick out more bisexual women than straight. It’s interesting.
I am also empirically attracted Jewish women, many of whom fit my “type”: physically smaller with dark hair. Oh, and also Slavic women. So theoretically, if I found a bisexual Russian Jewish woman, I would have found my idea of a (physically) perfect woman. Does Jdate allow gentiles to search by sexual orientation?Do I have bi-dar? Perhaps I have some latent remote sensing capabilities that allow me to sniff out bisexuals from pictures of their face. I jest of course. In all seriousness, I do wonder (but not for very long) if there’s some reason that I find myself aesthetically attracted to bisexual women. Do keep in mind that I look first at the profile picture. Only after I find her acceptable (don’t get me wrong, I’m not superficial; my rating system consists of two ratings: good enough or not, and it’s not hard to be good enough) do I look at the basic information. And it’s at that point that it is revealed to me that they are often bisexual.Perhaps there’s some scientific reasoning for my attraction. Or it could just as easily be chance. After all, my life is full of statistical improbability. At the end of the day, who cares: I try not to take this stuff too seriously.